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Hawaiian Vacation Cancelled - upate
Toxic Troll - 2 days prior to her supposed departure - has canceled the trip. Apparently because of the unexpected $50 for Rent. And the friend canceled too.
So WEIRD. Munchkin has no idea. Its too much trouble untangling the skein of lies and ambiguity that is a constant with her mother. Just that her friend canceled so she canceled too.
So - yeah, Dh did NOT cave...
Progress.
In other news, we adopted 2 adorable bengal kittens!
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Child suppport as pocket money for Hawaiian Vac
You read that right.
Valentines weekend was pleasant outings and manual labor (homeownership is wonderful eh?) punctuated by requests from BM Toxic Troll for her child support money ahead of his payment schedule "so she has money for Hawaii".
Yup. Toxic Troll is going on a 12-day vacation (from what JOB?), leaving SD13 Munchkin with us (of course), so she took our 3-day weekend (Id had plans for us as a family) in "trade for time". Probably so it doesnt look bad that shes taking off on a vacation (that word again!) without kiddo, and wants child support to help fund it.
Tax season woes. Toxic Troll wants our refund.
Please steptalk some sense into me, or at least let me know if Im out of line.
I do our taxes every year as a couple and have done each of our taxes separately as well, in previous years.
THIS tax year 2019, Toxic Troll did not work. And we think collected disability. But its unconfirmed. She also does side gigs.
THIS tax year 2019, she "gave" Dh SD13 to claim on our taxes. She was "given" SD13 per family court, but is not filing taxes this year.
Toxic Troll just CANNOT lay off and crawl under her rock!
Im getting pretty upset as I emotionally prepare for todays celebration of life for my MIL.
MIL passed away Friday night after our Vigil and we had already gone home and were in bed when the call came.
Its been non-stop family gatherings and today is another one for the celebration of life and viewing.
So - I saw that Toxic Trol had posteda lovely photo (that she stole from a FB family member) and included the following text:
Vigil Crashers
There is definitely a need for a Vigil/Funeral Bouncer.
So - updates.
Good news: DH received a distress call from SIL, who was so angry and pissed and stressed out. Toxic Troll was getting in the way, and so was Feral Forger. When they were tyring to change pads for MIL, they were right there, in the way.
Because they have RIGHTS.
DH yesterday, actually told her no, do NOT come. I was so proud. The first 2 days of the vigil, he would leave earlier than he wanted specifically because SHE was arriving.
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Feral Forger SD20 and her new job and college classes
Doesnt that sound like a nice caption, with all kinds of promise for a post about Feral Forger and her New Year - New Leaf, all the possibilities for becoming a better version of herself?
Yeah, well, no. She has been comming to the family vigils over MIL, along with the severely unwelcome Toxic Troll, who sits around, gets in the way and eats all the food.
And has apparently been bragging about her new job and her college classses.
Post Script - Waiting on Mother in law
Well, last night was pretty heavy. Thanks STalkers for hanging in there with me. Its an emotionally loaded time for my family. More on that...
Dh and I had it out, and picked at the scabbed wound called Feral Forger. He knows how I feel, and I know how he feels. I told him, "hey, my feelings are MY feelings, and its ok for me to have them."
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Poem to my MIL
so we got into a huge fight tonight,
turns out he HATES the part of me that HATES HIS PRECIOUS FIRST BORN DAUGHTER. Wow. He doesnt consider the effort and love i give his youngest. Guess her and I were both right!
I went to the home and everyone was gathered there.
everyone was crying. i supported everyone. i brought tissues. i hugged. i hugged hard. i stayed out of the way.
but husband was very raw/ and i poked my finger in the sore. frick. He said it and I asked for divorce.And he said ok.
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Dhs Mom critacally ill - hope I dont have to see Feral Forger and Toxic Troll
Its here. Shes 97 1/2. A very long and prolific existence. Dh is the youngest of 13.
Last week she was at the hospital and now shes at home, and they are giving her MAYBE 2 days. Ive had flu bug for 2 days but Im told it doesnt matter, just come to the house. Everyone is gathering. I dont feel at all bad that I am hoping and praying I wont see Feral Forger SD20 or her mother Toxic Troll BM.
Toxic Troll wants a bar in her living room and other daily chuckles
LOL.
Ok, I KNEW ToxicTroll was crazy and now this proves my point.
Toxic Troll was recently eveicted from her place of residence at the end of November.
She did not move her furnishings.
Munchkin SD13 has a bean bag to sleep on, Feral Forger has her old bed in the living room. Feral Forger recently acquired a job working graveyard, thusly comes to apartment and sleeps all day or goes off to party and play with friends.