Sooo... My DH informs me last night that his kids are having a pagent on Tues. I say.. great, I will put in for some vaca time to go. DH says.. oh.. you dont have a lot of vaca time... no need, I will go alone. He was very persistant that I do not go.

I DONT want him sitting w/her and her family because I dont want anyone to THINK they are a family.. and I dont want the skids to think that I didnt want to go.. I already think they are turning against me (they are only 9).