For awhile now, I occassionally go onto myspace and see if my dh's ex is on there, as well as her new dh. I havent had much luck.. UNTIL TODAY.. I hit pay dirt.

So.. I find the elusive ex.. and start to reading her blogs, thinking I can gain a better understanding of why she does and says the things she does and says. Well. I found it.. I found the reason I think she hates me so freakin much!

I brought up the subject again last night, and dh has agreed that we should do what would be in the best interest of any future child that we have, and that we would reprioritize the rooms.

I grabbed my handi dandy little tape measure and was measuring off stuff to get a better idea of how we should shuffle things around in the small 3 bedrooms.

I was extremely happy that he is considering the safety and well being of our future children. So now I have a plan. Now all I need to do is get pregnant. I just wish it was as easy as it is said!!

Wish us luck!!!

I just contacted the MA probate court to ask a question regarding the NCP obligations for bedrooms.

I was informed that my dh is under no obligation to provide seperate bedrooms for his kids of the opposite sex, since they are there less than 30% of the year.. 24 nights, 48 days.. that is 7% if you go by the sleep overs and 14% if you go by the days at the house.

I actually contemplated this last night. No really.. I did. A little history..

So, for the past year (about that) I would say that I have been down. I came off some antidepressants to try and get pregnant. We started trying Feb 2007. In April 2007, my husband went out to see for 2 monhts. During that 2 months, my Grandmother died, and an uncle committed suicide the morning of her funeral.

Those two events started me on a downward spiral of sorts. I stopped eating sensibly and since last May have gained about 30lbs.