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Court Next Week....... LONG Recollection & Vent

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Well, Well, Well...... We have the big court battle next week on 9 Sept. BM has filed an affidavit, and motion claiming DH, Me and his family abuse SD (physical and mental abuse), claims we leave her in places unknown with unknown people, DH and I tried to kill her in her sleep, we cause her to have nightmares, Our home is unstable, SD hides her clothing to keep from coming, we constantly lie to SD, and that she is owed more child support, DH scares her when picking up child ...etc. She is attempting to take away joint custody and visitation and get more child support.

Well, Well, Well, We should have known.....

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We just came back from our anniversary cruise .... it was wonderful. We were gone for 5 days to the Cayman Islands and Cozumel. Trip was just wonderful.....

BM is already trying to take away DH's visit for Labor Day. She told him he had the last holiday and should give this one up becuase SD stated she wanted to go with her mom instead of her dad. Well, he politely told her the court order states 1st 3rd and 5th weekends of the month and that he would be exercising his weekend then and bringing the child back as the order states.

BM is such a skank........

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Last visitation weekend (1 - 3 August) when DH picked up SD at the meeting location..

SD mentions to DH that "Jeff" is going to buy her school clothes this year. AND that her mommi was mad cause they were supposed to do it instead of SD coming to visit DH.

So BM gets CS (alot of CS) is not paying daycare this summer and has "Jeff" buying the school clothes.

Not to mention we still paid the $800 child support for June and July when the child was with us.

Wondering what BM pulls this weekend....?

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BM called on 1 Aug to try and switch DH's visitation to last weekend.... (7-9 August). She claimed this was due to having to get all of SD's school clothes on that weekend and she could not do it any other time. She then proceeded to lie and say that 1-3 August was the tax free weekend.

Well after I explained to DH that was a lie - he told her no and we went ahead with our wedding anniversary plans for this past weekend 8 August. Whew that year went by very quickly.......

What? Are you serious? I mean come one.... lets grow up already!!!!!

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DH goes to drop off SD on Sunday after his visit. They agreed to meet at 11 am. So DH gets there at 1030 and has brunch with SD will waiting for BM to get there.

BM shows up with her mother and sister - and The grandmother has the nerve to ask DH - Did he purposely get to the drop off location early to make BM look bad as if she was late.

Are you serious I mean come on - let's grow up. DH didn't want SD to be hungry on her way back home.

The past year in retrospect.......

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Dang it has been a crazy one. I married my DH on 8 August 2008. AND BM has had us on a non-stop roller coaster ever since. I have one SD (age 6) and BD (age 14). Before we got married DH and I never lived together and I owned my own home. So when May came of 2008 - I put my house on the market and was surprised it had a contract on it that was going to close by July. So by the way (DH had just purchased us a family home in March - which i didn't live in until my home closed).....

Really looking forward to our vacation.........

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We have planned a vacation in conjunction with our 1 year wedding anniversary. We are leaving on a Carnival Cruise to mexico on 24 August.

Our actual anniversary is two weeks earlier than that but we planned it so that we will not have any disruptions. SD starts school in NC the 10th of August... and all of the orientations, school prep, school clothes and everything else will have already been taken care of. We also are making sure that it does not fall on a visitation weekend and does not interfere with anything that heffa could call us about.

BM is an idiot........ a complete IDIOT!!!!!

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So DH took SD back to her mom on Friday AM as his summer visit was up. They are talking during the exchange at which time she asks DH why they have to go back to court and should be able to handle things like adults.

HUH?!? This BIT$%$ filed false allegations against us in an affidavit in January, took SD to a counselor said we were abusing her, and filed a motion in March to attempt to take away DHs visitation, and ask for more child support.

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