She alledges we abuse SD (emotionally, physically, & over medicate her), we leave SD in unknown places with unknown people where she is anxious, frightened and sad, we sometimes do not give her the medications and sometimes we have over medicated her, no one in VA likes her here, DH's sister has intentionally burned her with an iron, told the counselor I hit her and scream at her constantly when she visits, SD is so afraid of us she hides her clothing to keep from coming, we threatened her to take SD out of cheerleading, force her to drive 1/2 way, we constantly change meeting locations

So yesterday i blogged that BM was quiet and I felt like something was going to come up.

I was right - again. SHE (BM) is so dang predictable. DH and BM had already agreed a month ago on his summer visit dates. 2.5 weeks in June 2.5 in July. Plus his normal EOW visits every other weekend as the court order states.

So after we take her back home on Sunday - she waits until yesterday afternoon to send him a text message stating SD can not come back in July due to dance camp going the rest of the summer.

I am so damn angry right now. BM has really stepped over the boundaries of what a good mom is completely.

SD was at a go-cart racetrack amusement park with her aunt (husband's sister and kids) on Saturday. A stranger told SD she was beautiful and asked that she must look just like her mom. SD then says no i look just like my dad (which she does) and then replies well my mommi says my daddi and Gr8tma are mean so they are going to have to go to court and fight over me.

Well, after having DH told by BM to give up his visitation weekend for a birthday party. We tried to get her to give us the details so that we could just show up early and take sd since it was so important.

Of course she did not reply to any of my DHs texts or emails after he told her he would not give up his entire weekend for the birthday party.

SO we got on the road and drove from VA (4 1/2 hours) to NC getting there at 6pm. Called and hoped that we could have at least taken SD ourselves to the party or pick her up for the visitation as stated in the court order.