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Submitted by Nymh on Fri, 11/09/2007 - 2:33pm

I can't help but think that it's temporary, but at least for now BM is controlling herself and acting like an adult. BF and I are ever so thankful! If things could just always be like this! Of course I'm sure that it's just because the court stuff is coming up on the 26th. But there's a teeny tiny chance that it might be sincere...I'm not getting my hopes up though.

Now she wants to make amends.

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Submitted by Nymh on Sat, 11/03/2007 - 5:49pm

BF and BM had a long-overdue and much-needed talk last night. Originally it started out with her wanting to switch weekends because SS is sick. They got that straightened out, and then of course she started to talk about other things. BF decided to humor her (finally) and gave her the answers she had been wanting for so long on some questions she had. She ended up sobbing and crying. He got the chance to yell at her and ask her what the hell was wrong with her and set her straight on a lot of things.

I think SS doesn't like his Mom

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Submitted by Nymh on Wed, 10/31/2007 - 7:36pm

I can't say as I blame him. I just feel sorry for her. We all know she's doing it to herself and we can't change that...I just hate it that their relationship is suffering. Case in point - this evening we took SS trick-or-treating (YAY we had so much fun!!). Well, there was this booth that was taking pictures of kids in their costumes and printing them for free. I asked SS if he wanted to go get his picture taken and take it home for his Mom. He said, "Noooo!" I asked him why not, and said that I thought his Mom would like to see him having fun in his costume.

Heaven forbid I do something nice for SS

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Submitted by Nymh on Mon, 10/22/2007 - 6:39am

Where I work, people bring their children's fundraisers to sell for them to the rest of us. I saw this neat little dry-erase flip board with math problems, geography problems, etc on it and thought that would be cool to get SS, so I did. It was only $4.50, and since SS has said he's so bored in school and never learns anything I thought it would be nice to get. SS actually really liked it and used it quite a bit this weekend. Well, when BF dropped SS off last night and BM saw the flip board in the car, she went off...here's the email BF came home to last night:

Could this woman be more selfish?

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Submitted by Nymh on Sat, 10/20/2007 - 9:34am

BM's father was rushed to the hospital yesterday with a heart blockage. BM called BF from a phone somewhere to tell him to call her, and he did. She told him what happened and he was very supportive and understanding. He said that he would unblock her numbers so that she could call if she needed to with updates. She asked him to go get SS 2 hours early. Then she asked him to please not bring me with him. ?? Her father's in the hospital and she has more important things to worry about? I called him from work just to say hello, and he told me what was going on with her dad.

Hmm...I just wondered something...

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Submitted by Nymh on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 11:50am

Everyone of you that I have on my Myspace friends have dozens of pictures of your kids on your profile and in your albums. If BM's whole life revolves around SS, he's her life, she'd die without him, he's the most important thing to her, etc...why doesn't she have a single picture of him on her page?

I was just wondering. Maybe she's not the picture posting type? I just find it odd...

Immaturity

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Submitted by Nymh on Thu, 10/11/2007 - 6:32pm

She always has to do something to mess things up. So everyone knows that BM was to drop SS off on her way through town today to make up for screwing BF out of his fall break with SS. Well, she did do that. And she also did something else while she was there...she keyed BF's car! All the way down the driver's side! BF called the cops and filed a police report. I just can't believe she'd be so immature!

BM's life is literally falling apart & good news about visitation

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Submitted by Nymh on Thu, 10/11/2007 - 6:30am

In a way I feel sorry for her. It's hard to feel sorry for someone who is so vindictive and nasty, especially when they have done all of this to themself and the only person that doesn't understand that is them. BM's boss at work sounds like she's given up on her and is just waiting on a good enough excuse to fire her. BM is frequently told that if she doesn't do this or that, she'll lose her job. I've never heard her say this about her job before. She's also doing very bad in school. She's only taking two classes this semester, and out of 14 class meetings she's only been to 4.

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