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My RO against BM is expiring

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On June 6th, 8 days from now, the restraining order between BM and myself will be expired. I wonder how long it will take her to contact me for the first time? What do you guys think? I'd like to take a poll. When will BM contact me for the first time after the RO expires? LOL Some of you might remember, when her and BF's RO expired last year (which stipulated that their contact could only be about SS), she emailed him the next day and said that she wanted to remind him that it was expired and started talking about how much she missed him and wanted him to come back home.

I'm going back to school!

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Hooray! It's been heck trying to get the university to recognize me as an independent student, but they finally caved since I have a baby on the way. According to law, you're considered dependent until you're 25 unless you're married or have a child. Well, my parents live in a different state, I own my own home, own my own business...however, few people know this but I'm 22 (yeah, I know) and not married and have no children!

It's a girl! :)

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Just wanted to post a quick preggo update. It's a girl! Yay! I'm so excited Smile I can't wait to meet my little girl.

We haven't decided on a name yet. We didn't really start talking about names until we found out that she was a girl.

I'm 19 weeks now, almost halfway there!

How court went...:)

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So...Nothing went her way. When they got there it turned out they weren't even on the docket for today for some reason. They sat down to explain to the docket guy why they were there so that he could either put them on the docket or schedule them to come back another day. BF's's lawyer explained that there was no change in his income and if anything it had gone down because of gas prices and that we're going to have a baby soon. She said that her income had gone down significantly and that's why she filed the petition to modify.

Court tomorrow

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I just wanted to ask that everyone keep their fingers crossed for us. BF and BM are going to court tomorrow over CS. The odds are that there will be a continuance but just in case there isn't, I'd appreciate it!

BM's life is falling apart

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Apparently someone has put a lien on her accounts because she hasn't made any payments. She claims that it is marital debt but won't say who it is or what it was for. All of this debt is in her name - BF has no access to any of the accounts and can't even call to request information because his name was NEVER on any of these accounts. He has already paid off everything that was in his name during their marriage.

Not that we're keeping score, but...

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Turns out I was right about why SS doesn't want to go to school. A couple of months ago when BM, BF and I had that emergency pow-wow with SS and BM informed us that he was missing an average of one day a week, I told BF that I thought someone was picking on SS at school. We've asked him several times between now and then, and he denied that anyone was being mean to him while continuing to miss more and more school. He missed an entire week two weeks ago, and after BM took him to the doctor last week and nothing was wrong, she finally decided something was up.

Hrm.

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So...we got Rock Band for PS3 last weekend, and SS loves it. He goes on and on to BM about how great it is and how we all play together. She thinks it's awesome apparently. BM and BF have come up with this idea to record SS playing the songs of his favorite band on the game so they can send it to the band and the fan club and stuff. I asked BF, did you ask her about the videotapes from Disney in January that BM was supposed to copy for us and never did? He said that she'd be dropping off all of the equipment so that we could do that ourselves since she didn't have the time.

Are you kidding me?

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SS is here now. BM dropped him off while I was at work. I came in and saw that he has more medications than usual. However, these are meds that were filled a long time ago - one was filled in 2006 and one was filled in 2007...meaning that she didn't take him to the doctor, she's just treating him with stuff that she had lying around left over. One of them is already expired. This is what she sends for us to use. BF informs me that BM is picking SS up on Monday morning on the way to his doctor appointment.

SS hasn't been to school all week - a rant

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First off, let me start off by saying that last week was Spring Break, so SS didn't go to school at all last week either. If you read my last blog, you saw that SS had an anxiety attack on Monday morning and his mom didn't make him go to school. Last night, BF was telling me that BM is dropping SS off today for visitation (which means that she's doing something recreational again this weekend...she never drops SS off unless it's on her way to go out of town). He then starts off with, "BM says that SS is still coughing and feeling puny..."

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