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Would this bother you?

Hypothetical question...

If BM owned a car that SS has taken over payments for but it's in BM's name would you want your SO to drive it? Like if SO and SS were taking a road trip and it made sense for whatever reason to take SS's car (newer, better on gas).

BM is high conflict.

ETA: SS is an adult.

What's everyone doing this summer?

It's almost officially and unofficially summer time. So what is everyone doing? What is everyone's kid/skids doing for the summer? Anything fun?

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Need Opinions- Should BM and DH talk?

I don't dislike BM because she has a past with DH. I dislike her because of the way she acts. Not only to her kids and people in general but the way she has treated my DH since him and I have been together. I know she treated him like crap when they were together but that is not my business.

When BM doesn't get her way or is mad at DH about something she will text/call him and be verbally abusive. She will say nasty things about DH and about me.

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OT- Planning two vacations- Need Help!- Puerto Rico and Universal Studios

Looking into some mini vacations. One with DH (Puerto Rico) and one with BS (Universal Studios).

I am looking for suggestions of places to stay and things to do.

I know the Universal trip we will only be doing the parks, so more so wanting to know what the best hotels are or packages that include dining.

For the Puerto Rico trip I am totally clueless. Ideally I would like an all inclusive resort that has a beautiful view and pool. Close to the beach.

Any input, suggestions, etc would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

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Read with Caution**** Seriously

Very sad news story... don't read if you don't want to be upset... but just a reminder as a step parent if you are feeling resentful please seek help. I like to think that no one here would be like this SM but you never know.

So sad and prayers for this boy.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2016/04/19/pure-evil-...

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Pretty sure MSD is pregnant again

Just some updates on DH's kids...

OSD posted something about pregnancy (old wives tale on how to tell if you are having a boy or girl) on FB and tagged a couple of her friends and MSD in it. So pretty sure that MSD is pregnant. She said something along the line "For my friends that are pregnant. I'm done having kids but every baby is a miracle and blessing."

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Is it ever okay to not include skids/bios

In step land there is a lot of talk about kids (on both sides) not being included in certain things or purposely excluded.

Is there ever a time when its okay to not include some kids and include others?

Does it matter if they are minors or adults?

Should bad behavior be taken into consideration?

Is it okay for adult kids to want to spend time with their parent without their younger siblings (step or bio) around? Or even their SP being around?

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Cheating OSD, Snitching BM, Druggie OSD DH- Jerry Springer life

Thought I'd give an update with what is going on with DH's kids. Thought it might entertain ya some if you are stuck at work waiting for the next few hours to pass by.

Not sure whatever happened with OSD's theft charge. It's still active. I know she went to the other state it happened and got officially charged there but she is back in our state.

I guess she starts a job (finally) after 4 months of being unemployed today.

Her DH is still on drugs. He "works" a lot. Sometimes he has a lot of money. Sometimes he doesn't. He is never home.