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Am I the wrong one?

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Yesterday I am working from home.

I see a junker car pull up in the culd de sac and drop off a red bag. It looked like one of those coupon bags that gest dropped off with flyers, etc. The guy only dropped one off at our house. I was a little curious but I assumed it was maybe the local pizza place that we order from a lot and maybe they were dropping off coupons?

Get a life MSD

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MSD calls DH last night. I am in the same room as he is when she calls so I can overhear what they are talking about.

Basically MSD's ex has custody of the baby F-S. So now MSD is bored on the weekends. She wanted to come over and hang with Daddddyyyyy. I heard DH say "Where are your girlfriends?".

Seriously what 18 year old wants to spend Friday night with her dad and evil SM who she hates. When she does come over here it's super uncomfortable. What fun is in that?

DH said "MSD wants to come over" I just rolled my eyes. He rolled his eyes back at me, imitating me.

Child support adjustment- trying to wrap my head around this....

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This is me speaking as a BM- BS is 8.

I just received in the mail a letter from CS that it has been 3 years since my last review and I can request a hearing.

When CS was ordered my Ex was working a different job, making more money then he is and has been in the past 2 years and 10 months.

He only paid maybe 3 full payments of what was ordered per month.

Shortly after the CS was ordered, Ex fell on some hard times. He ended up moving back to his hometown and taking a job Serving.

Speaking of Cheaters- Tori & Dean

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Goodness I hope I dont regret bringing up the cheating subject again.

However, since we always talk about Leanne and Eddie and we never talk about Tori and Dean, I was just curious as to what everyone thought about them and their story?

I hate to say it but I like Tori. I love her reality tv shows. I have connected to her and her family. Ugh I know. I am sure some of you are going to hate me and then accuse me of being a homewrecker....

In my Step World- my story about me being a skid

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My Grandma's funeral was this weekend. It was a very nice service. Grandma = my mom's mom

My dad (who has been divorced from my mom for almost 29 years) came to the service. He has remained on friendly terms with his Ex MIL this whole time. He lives about 3 hours from where my hometown is and 6 hours away from me.

YSD has been calling an awful lot lately.....

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I noticed that YSD had been calling DH a lot lately. Like a few times a week as opposed to a couple of times a month (if even that).

So I mention it nicely "I noticed YSD has been calling a lot lately".

DH: Oh yeah she is just calling to talk. She is done with school. She is bored.

Me: Oh okay that is good.

DH: Oh and she wanted me to buy her an iPhone5.

DING DING DING

Sooooo DH that is WHY she has been calling you.

Thankfully he told her no. And I know he wont buy her one.

Why does MSD need our address?

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I seen on DH's texts that MSD asked for our address.

Why does she need our address? She had her own address. She has never lived at our house. She knows how to drive herself to our house, so its not like she doesnt know where we live and she needs to GPS it or something.

Now if I ask DH why MSD asked for our address he will get offensive and assume that simply because she is his daughter that she has the right to our address. Which yes I know its public record.

I am just so on edge about WHY she would need OUR address.

Told off DH's friend because he tried to tell me I need to be a better SM

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Yep- got drunk and told off DH's friend.

I actually like this guy. I really do. He is one of DH's closest friend. He spends a lot of time with him. He is also the one that DH ran to for blankets (previous blog) when him and MSD were forced by evil wicked SM to sleep on the floor of a vacant apartment. }:)

Friday night we had friends over. Drinking and cooking out.

Friend brings up that basically I need to accept the skids. DH talks to him about it and the problems. Blah blah blah.

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