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she only dropped off SS11 one time and of course the GAL seemed to believe every word she said. Today is DH day and normally he gets dropped off at 6pm by the bioytch herself. I guess was special. SS11 called DH 2 hrs early to find out if he could be dropped off early. DH told him that he wasn't home. SS11 came over anyway. BM's loser husband (I wouldn't even count him as a step father he does nothing for any of the kids)
So, I'm new to this, but thought it might help with my anxiety. I have been married to my DH for almost 3 years, but have been with him for 5 years. When we began dating, his divorce was being finalized. The joint parenting agreement for his son has not been modified since it was originally filed and signed.
Well, today has been no different than any of the other days. OK a little but only petty stuff. Got up, sson was already up and had his breakfast and was ready for school. DW was busy on her laptop with misc paper work (we ended up about an hour north for an interview for her). I walked Sson out to the bus and waited with him (as usual - just to make sure he gets on the bus and goes to school).
Oh so that makes you mother of the year? You fucking loser!
I want to text that to bm so bad right now but I won't give her the satisfaction!
I'm been lurking for a long time. I've made a couple blogs in the past. It really helps me to read everyone's troubles because I know I'm not alone.
This is not specifically a Sparent or Blended family issue but I was curious to hear other perspectives.
The decision was sound. The problem is that she did it without discussing it with me first.
All of our assets are joint and we have always collaborated on those decisions. All in all it was not a huge deal other than she got angry with me when I expressed shock that she had made the decision without calling me to discuss it.
Is it wrong that I feel bad because when I pick SD5 up from school she looks down, sad and disappointed because it wasn't her "mommy" picking her up?
I know I shouldn't expect more from a five year old, but I'm human, I have feelings, and is not fair that I drive to get her all excited, and I get a "I wanted my mommy to pick me up" not even a "hello". 
This past week, my DH & I went to visit some friends that was located near where the BM lives. We had been having issues with her (she lies incessantly about everything). DH was concerned because one of her lies involved the kids (saying she had a home invasion, etc)--thought it was her ex (whom she kept repeatedly telling DH she was going to marry)--and now she is staying somewhere else with the kids. So, DH calls her up to tell her we are in town and that he wants to talk to her after she drops the kids off at school.
Didn't happen.
Hey, everyone. As you all know, I've been here for awhile but haven't found the time to actually post my story.
First of all, I want to say again that I'm not here to try to cause problems, but to learn from you ladies. I'm here to make sure that I don't do anything that will alienate my ex's gf as I want to continue to have a good relationship with her.
I am new here, and have been struggling with my duties as a step mom for 7 years now, and just didn't know where to turn when I stumbled across this site. I will try to be quick with a short bio of myself first...I am a 35 yr old Mom with a beautiful 15 yr old daughter and a beautiful 2 yr old daughter. I also have 2 step children who live with me. They are a 14 yr old step son, and a 16 yr old step daughter. Their bm has not been in their lives for over 2 yrs now. She is constantly moving and changing phone numbers, and changing men constantly!!
As many of you know, BM has put our family through hell for the five years that DH and I have been married. Last year after BM abused SD my BH gained custody. We just learned in the past week that BM has moved for the 8th time in 5 years. (One of the many reasons DH gained custody) She moved back to our hometown in NOVEMBER. She has lived here for almost 6 months now, and we had no clue. What the real kicker is is that SD10 has been lying the entire time. About everything. And when asked why, she said because Mommy doesnt want you to know where we live or what she drives. WHY?