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Help!!!! His ex is driving me INSANE!!!!

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Submitted by sweetmysery1303 on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 10:18pm

Well i stumbled upon this site by accident, but glad i did! Im hoping to get some advice as i see that alot of you have similar issues. I met my bf about a year ago and found out that he has 6 yes 6 kids. Three are to his highschool gf ages 12,10,7 the other 2 are to his ex wife and she made it too difficult for him to see them and the youngest will be 3 and he and her mom broke up a few months before we met and had been together about 5yrs. His 10 and 7 yr old stay with us for the summer they arent too bad but have a hard time adjusting to us being a couple.

Today is day One of year 16 of our lives together. Yesterday was our 15th anniversary.

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Submitted by Rags on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 7:32pm

Honey,

Thanks for sharing your life with me and thanks for participating as an equity partner in my life. You have been my inspiration, my joy and my muse. Working to keep up with your example of diligence, character and the pure love you give me are in large part why I am as successful as I have been. You make me a better man.

Sweet, sweet weekend without the step kids

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Submitted by Reluctant Step Mum on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 7:30pm

Just enjoying a quite morning at home without the step kids. Even DH is out getting his tyres changed on his car and my 20 year old daughter is still sleeping the day away.

I savour these times, when it is just me, doing what I want to do, which right now is not much of anything.

Ahhhhh the quite and peace.

Not sure where to start

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Submitted by susiebeth on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 2:52pm

I'm not a step parent yet and honestly I don't know if I want to be. I really love my fiance and get along great with his 12 year old son but his 9 year old daughter is weird. We have talked about moving in together but he has his children all the time. His ex wife left right after the girl was born and no one has seen her since. I don't have any kids of my own but I have 4 brothers who have lots of kids between them. I enjoy my nephews and niece, they're average everyday kids, and they get along with his son.

Trial Separations...Anyone with experience?

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Submitted by KeeKee on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 2:11pm

I am so sick of constantly being disappointed in the man I love. Besides the crappy step-shit, I also feel like I am the only adult in this relationship. I am the responsible one, the reliable one, and I resent like hell that I have no one to depend on the way he can depend on me... If you have any interest in my step-story, I posted a couple of blogs (4?) over the last couple of years and am too tired to explain that pig show over again.

A HAPPY ENDING

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Submitted by stepmomof2girls on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 1:49pm

My little one has been back from her moms for a week now. She hasn't wet the bed since she's been back. Our house has been great since they have been home. Guess they really are happy to be here. All it took was 7 years of BABYMOMA & MOTHER-IN-LAW crap to get here. Either way I thank the lord for what he has given us. Having step kids isn't all that bad anymore. I'm glad to report a happy ending to my worst nightmares.... It was hard as h@ll. If you know what I mean. Now if we could just get it to stay this way.. Now that's a dream come true..

Apparently SS is in daycare, but we're wondering if he was just recently thrown in due to our custody hearing..

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Submitted by mrsparks on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 1:48pm

The judge did say that she wanted BM to prove she is working full time and that SS was enrolled in daycare on the date of our last court hearing. BM seemed to not know the name of the daycare or the place she worked in court..

BM called and left a message on DH's voicemail today giving him the name of the daycare and the address as to where SS is to be picked up this evening-

The judge ordered DH to pick SS on Fridays because BM said she is suddenly working fulltime and alledgedly placed SS in a pre-k iep program-which I believed was another one of her lies-

Back from paradise to BM HELL!

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Submitted by smnikki on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 11:57am

the day before we left, ss had tball, and it was our night. bm showed up before us with ss (it was her day to pick him up from day care and take him even though its our night) and she informs my fil that she is going to tell my dh that she will be keeping him for the night because she is going camping in the morning. DH gets there and she approaches him, he says no that we are leaving for 8 days, he wont see him its our night, and she can pick him up in the morning. BM flips out, and starts yelling, scoops ss up and leaves with him.

Hi everyone!!! Im back and now an official MRS!!!

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Submitted by smnikki on Fri, 07/31/2009 - 11:44am

Jamaica was great, the wedding was beautiful!! Looks like i have some catching up to do with reading! oh yeah, and an update, because BM has completely flipped out!

anyways, i will be creating a facebook sometime in the next week and posting pictures! cant wait to meet some of you members there!!

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