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So here's what I'm thinking...maybe that DH and BM should go to therapy together? DH is starting to become an angrier person as time goes on with dealing w/BM and their son together...she is far from the easiest/nicest person to deal with while they were together, and even now almost 10 years later.
So recently BM has been really nice to my DH. She sent him an email saying she would die if anything ever happened to him or SD. That was just part of the email but she threw that in there. Been really nice to him. We are heading to court soon so I am not sure what she is playing at. Is she trying to get to me? or is she trying to hang onto the time she has with her daugther (DH wants more) or the Spousal support he pays her. She did tell him a few months ago if it goes to court she will make it ugly.
I previously wrote about ss getting interviewed for a local newspaper today. Well, after the reporter was finished asking him some questions she wanted to talk to me. She asked me my name and Dh's name and if we all had the same last name. I said yes but......
I told her that I was the stepmom just so she didn't assume I was the mom. I could just picture having ss's picture in the paper and underneath the caption would read son of and then my name and Dh's name. Then I pictured Bm reading that and, well, you know the rest.
So my SD graduated High School and DH and I could not be more proud, we threw her a big family graduation party and invited a few of her closest friends, after the party I asked her about her plans for the summer and she said probably just hang out with friends and find a job before she starts college (I am so proud of her she is so responsible, nothing like BM).
I don't often remember my dreams when I wake up. If I do, that usually means they were particularly weird or disturbing. In all of two years, Ms. Perfect has never been in my dreams.
But last night, she was. She was coming to pick up SS, and was extremely early, and she pulled into my back yard and came up on my porch. Long story short-I proceeded to beat the living be-jesus out her. Then I went on some three hour long trek to find the paperwork stating the arrangements for pick up.
Okay ladies (and gentlemen), keep us in your thoughts and prayers ... our hearing is Wednesday at 2pm PST. I won't be home to update everyone until around 11pm (I have a double headder softball game), but I will update everyone.
BB responded and spent 4-pages bringing up stuff that is completly irrelevant to our hearing, and has already been resloved by the court. She did not refute any of the major arguements we made. Basically, she didn't have a leg to stand on, so she didn't have anything she could refute, so she brought old stuff into the picture that is irrelevant.
Hi..I need help explaining how I feel to hubby. The average I see his kids is once a month when they visit. (He still sees them every week on his way home from work and speaks to them from work who knows how often.)
I just got off the phone with her. They are NOT moving today. They did move out of the house they shared with the Brother. DK is up north and is job and house hunting. They are looking to move up for August 1st. In the mean time, the kids are spread out.
One is w/DK at a friend's, one is w/ their Grandmother, Sd16 doesn't know where SD14(turned 15 today) is staying and she is staying at her BF's. We talked for a while and she wants me & BF to call her later.
As I think, why the F**King drama at midnight.
I was just curious, is anyone out there from Honolulu? If yes please respond.
Because I am new at being GF to BF with 3 kids, is it necessary for me to have any future contact with BM once I get married? or even now. It is a serious relationship. She has already made me an enemy without meeting me first.
How do you deal with it? I am talking about seeing each other at soccer games, phone calls and etc...
At first my BF was suggesting to do so, but after her actions and my telling him that I don't want to be around her, he has dropped the subject.
What do I do?