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Does anyone on here know the ratio of steps that stay in their situations? Is it just me or does there seem to be a lot of relationship break-ups on here recently? (I've been a member for almost a year, but only actively blogging for the past month or so..)
Hmmmm...
SD5 is in another state, BS1 in another country... DH's father died 11 years ago...
I'm not sure, how his mood will be in father's day. Since he won't be able to spend time with the kids nor his father, I don't know what to do in order to honor his "fatherhood".
Any ideas? (other than material things...)
In my case..I am a little only because I know that BM who is always over the top will more than likely go out and get some extravagant mushy fathers day card and some gift - cologne..something..from SS(2),.I have to come realize that these materialistic items mean nothing to FH but they still irk me - I know it's from "SS" but still the idea of another woman ( and I say this because besides the fact that she is SS's BM she IS the other woman as she wants FH back).
This is most likely not going to be a popular post…
And many will probably disagree…
But that is why I said it is an “opinion”.
After reading, and even posting some, on this board for a while…
I was wondering why it is that everyone seems so very overly concerned for the mental, emotional, financial, physical and finally…spiritual well-being of each individual child…than we do of the adults around them???
Basically I guess what I mean is this…
Why is any one human beings life more important than another’s?
My SS's BM has planned for SS to go to a horse show this weekend and is asking if BF can just pick SS up Sunday morning instead of getting him for the whole weekend. SS is in a summer enrichment camp also, and will have to be back Sunday night so he can go back to school Monday morning.
So the "gossips" in my office are all talking about how Giselle (Tom Brady's wife) is now pregnant with her own child. Now the women in my office are all married, but NO children OR stepchildren...all they talk about is "Real housewives or Tom&Kate plus 8" not to say I don't watch those shows too..but every morning they come in and speak negatively about everyone.
I am interested to know if there are any other SM's out there who refuse to have their $$ put into DH checking account? Ive had my own checking & savings accounts from day one. I simply refuse to have my $$ used for CS or all the other Disney Dad expenditures. Whats mine is mine,but whats his is mine too! That is the golden rule of marriage, right??
Today marked 8 months since my H and I stood at the altar and said our vows. And they arent kidding when they tell you the first year is the hardest. Im beginning to think it is damn near impossible when a stepchild is involved.
Well, it is old, but they mention how immature the people in this site are, how evil, lazy and selfish... etc...
http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/step/msg081225509535.html
interesting...
Some of the great lines include but are not limited to:
"Every last step-parent on HERE is 12 infinities more enlightened, aware, sensitive and mature and with a healthy sense of ego than that bunch over there"
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