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Our new baby arrived finally, and he is fantastic. Im so happy and thankful that I am trying to not stress mye4elf out about the skids. Typically at the end of every week I start to get emotional and really stressed, knowing that in a few hours the skids will be here, destroying our home, manipulating my H and terrorising my children. So I get real grouchy and on the verge of tears. With my new child I want to turn over a new leaf, good karma and so forth. How do I do this when I despise one of my skids. I have tried to be nice and caring but this child is honestly not human.
So this is the story....I knew my husband in high school..we had a child together, but didn't stay together. so he had no relationship with our daughter for 23 years. In the mean time, we both remarried, and he had 3 children and I ended up in 2 marriages, both producing children. Well, I was in my second marriage for 16 years but it was abusive. Verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically. Well, he ended up getting a divorce, and called to get into our daughters life. Well.....that conversation lead to more and now we are together.
So not sure how to go about this. I am not fond of my step children. I think that they use my husband and he doesn't see it. He alows them to run all over me, and I'm just basically a figure here in the house that everybody walks around or over. I have spent so much money on these kids and this family...it really upsets me....thre is so much to tell you......just need to move on..if I can't be happy I need to move on.....cut my loses....my step children really hate me and I can't find anything that I like about them.
Yes, DH became so heated during counseling last night that he walked out! He came back in a little while later. But I confronted him in front of the counselors last night & said that I feel he is looking for a way out & the counselors agreed w/me & said that's what they see also.
I'm in the dark here...I know it's not cheap but how much does it take to raise a child per week? All included...food, water, electricity, cable, gas, extras, etc? Just wondering what you all think?
So my FH and his kids and I were on vacation a couple weeks ago and SD12 I guess told her truth and said that she thought my sister (9 YO) was annoying. I was SOOO pissed! It's still bugging the hell out of me and I'm finding myself to be having more animosity and hatred toward SD! I'm still pissed at FH too for not really standing up for my sister or my family for that fact. If I could've been totally honest at that point in time I would've told SD ten ways that she's annoying to me!
DH can't stand the Lazy SD Princesses (20 & 25) either, but insists on giving them time to save up for first and last months rent for their apartment. I think I've been waiting long enough! They've had plenty of time to save up-years. When I came home from work today the kitchen sink was full of dishes, the cat had been left in the house, and the place was a mess. I'm getting down right B****y and my DH is tired of hearing me B**** about the Lazy SD Princesses so now I can't even hold a conversation with him about them and their actions. Lovely. Just lovely.
My DH is working out of town, Mon and Wed. are SS6 swim lessons and bm was going to be there! This girl hates me! She really does, why? I have no idea, probably cuz I'm mom 6 days of the week to her son. Anyways, SS6 and I go to swim lessons, bm shows up 15 min late (go mom). SS6 said hi and started spazzing out, normal behavior for him when bm is around.
Two men met at a bus stop and struck up a conversation.
One of them kept complaining of family problems.
Finally, the other man said:
"You think you have family problems? Listen to my situation."
"A few years ago, I met a young widow with a grown-up daughter. We got married and got myself a stepdaughter. Later, my father married my stepdaughter. That made my stepdaughter, my step-mother. And my father became my stepson. Also, my wife became mother-in-law of her father-in-law".
So, my best friend got engaged to day in front of Cinderella's Castle in DisneyWorld. She and her fiancee have been together for 1 year.
BF and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, would love to get engaged/married but God only knows when we'll be able to afford it (of course, thanks to BM and the giant f**k up called SD).
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