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Ok this is off the subject of sp, but I need advice bad. My sister is beyond psycho! She was just diagnosed as being bi-polar - but has been for years - they just now diagnosed her. Anyway the problem is that she is oding on her meds. She has 3 kids 7, 4 & 2. She wants her husband to move out. He's the one taking care of the kids but admitted he really doesn't want to - he's tired and burned out. Anyhow - when you go over to house, it is filthy! There are trashbags of trash in the living room & kitchen. Dirty dishes everywhere.
I don't. How many of you can truely say your life would be better without the SKIDS? If BM and DH still were in the same role without the SKIDs? I think the DH and BM should have more accountability than all these SKIDS that didn't start out as demons.
I am sure this is nothing new for many in this group, but with two stepchildren, agess 11 and 13, I feel my FH and I am always running to some event for one of them. I really feel this is having an effect on our relationship and my insecurity of always coming #2. He is a great dad, don't get me wrong. He can't work late on the days the kids are with us, so he then works late on the days we don't leaving me alone. He, then being a guy, has no idea what I am upset about. How have some of you made sure your relationship had its own time?
I need some advise on dealing with my husband's ex-wife. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now. He was previously married for 12 years and has 3 children with her. He has assured me over and over again that I have nothing to worry about where she is concerned. However, just the fact that they were married and have 3 children together makes me uncomfortable around her. She has not remarried at this time. We are around each other when we pick up and drop off the kids and for special school functions mostly.
I need advice, same advice I usually need. We had to see BM today at SS soccer game and just on wed. she threatened to take DH back to court and now on Sat. she tries to be best buddies. DH has custody and she just moved again for the 7th time and has a new job again for the 5th time so I am not worried about court.
i was just thinking...now that dh and i know bm is keeping our money rather than paying for child care (the govt is picking that up for her) and the money isnt going to ss, she is buying red bull, ciggeretts, and what ever else she needs...clothes.
I am wondering how much info a 14 y/o should give her parents when she is going "out"? My fiance and I dropped my SD14 and her friend off in a town about 40mins from home last night. She told him she was seeing a "show", but she was dropped off in front of a Sub-Way. BTW my kids are all grown now ages 23-30. I always made sure I knew where they were, or at least asked for as much info as I could, before they went somewhere. I asked my fiance if he knew exactly where she was going to be...this ended up in a disagreement between my fiance and I. SD lives with us.
DH and BM had a meeting with the GAL last week. It finally went DH way. I don't know what changed the GAL mind but she finally got on BM case and DH was flabergasted!
i left work early yesterday and didnt have a chance to read it...but i was really looking forward to waking up this morning and reading it all.
17 y/o is rude & disrespectful to me & his 1/2 sibilings. more me than them. ive tried the ignore thing but its hard. ive heard him call me a b**** & say i wish she was dead more than once. his dh does handle things pretty good but when he isnt around( works alot a supervisor )i dont want to call him all the time. he ss yells at me when i ask his lazy ass to get up & help around the house with me & my 2 other ss . i wont do his laundry cause he throws it in the bottom of his closet.
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