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SD told me that she doesn't trust her own mother (BM) to take care of her. Can you imagine? It is just very sad.
ok, so wedding is in 1.5 months, mil still not coming. sil's not coming to my shower this weekend, but talked to sil last night she said she was in an accident and cant make it, so i feel better that at least one person from his family loves me.
Last night was the first day of tball. we get to the field at 615, it started at 6. bm had taken ss, even though it was our night, because it is HER SON, i already posted on this matter.
I was such a silly girl for thinking that BM had evolved. I have learned time and time again not to place too much stock in her.
My husband's birthday was last weekend. The girls were very busy and with their mom last week, so I spoke with my SD9 and we agreed that I would take them on Saturday to buy dad a birthday present after their teeball/softball practices. I was taking them because DH had to work.
So yesterday afternoon, H gets home from work and SD13's phone (landline, she had her cell taken away months ago) is ringing off the hook. He was wondering why SD didn't tell her friends how to get a hold of her, and picked up the line to let whomever it was know SD13 doesn't live with us any more.
Wow......last week really sucked! Forgive the long post, you can skip to the end if you'd like. 
We were in an Ex-Parte hearing last Thursday. The BM, SD13's attorney and my H and I were present. Let me say right now, Judge Judy (not the real Judy, just my nickname) does not like BM at all. She's impartial and does not play favorites, because she lets H know when he's out of line. The Judge also called in SD's therapist as a witness.
SS12 has had a couple more meltdowns, at BM’s only, since the initial incident (please see previous blog).
The last time was on a BM weekend. BM called at 6AM on a Saturday morning – on the home number – my number, as DH always uses his mobile. She wanted DH to pick up SS12 for the weekend because she didn’t want to deal with him.
Well FH treated me like a complete jerk yesterday..he was at work..but he couldn't even call me on his lunch break, I was very hurt and crying all day after he "dumped me". He went to lunch with his coworker..I don't know..I'm the type of person that I would make it a priority and have taken lunch by myself to call the other person. But I realize that men don't deal with confrontation or stress the same way women do. I have learned that over and over so many times.
My SO best friends, a christian couple that he see's as family, tonight he went to see them as he felt that there was a little tension towards me. The women in this couple has never made an effort to get to know me as she is scared to just in case we break up (her exact words).... WTF????? We have been going out 16months and friends for a year before that. She has been told that I am only with my SO to get a child the easy way (since when has step parenting been the easy way????) and that the only reason my SO other want increased access is because I want a child......
So SD 11 saw the caller id when BM called a few weeks ago which just happens to read "Whore". I'm not sure but i think she knows what that is/means. So today when BM picked up the kids one of them "accidentally" brought the phone. So BM comes to the door around 1 (i was at work but BF was home). BF answers the door and SD says "SS13 accidentally brought the phone" and she runs off, then BM hands the phone to BF and says "i don't care if you have that in your cell phone but take it off there i don't want the kids to see it". NOW...
FH and I have SD3 50% of the time. I adore having her so much, but she is a handful so at the end of our week (we do week on week off) we are always ready for a rest. By having SD only 50% it lets us still have time for vacations and alone time. However, BM is a crazy! I would enjoy the situation so much more if I was not scared for SD. BM has left SD alone in an apartment with the neighbors watching her from their apartment SO SCARY. Thank goodness that FH just happened to check on SD that day. The most recent stunt that BM has pulled was claiming that SD's burn was an accident.