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There's a lot of talk on here about SM's disengagement from BioMom. Does anyone have any experience with a daughter disengaging from her own mother? BioMom is so useless and clueless to me. It's not just about me, it's about her own 15 year old daughter. When she says she'll call at 3pm.. and she doesn't call until 4pm. When she says she'll be over to pick her up for the night after helping her sister put away things from a garage sale - that she was at all day today - the day she is supposed to be with her own daughter... and still has not shown up at 6:39pm.
It's a beautiful Saturday afternoon here. Sunny and 78 degrees. I took SD to her SAT exam this morning and picked her up and then BM was supposed to pick her up this afternoon and take her for overnight. She had her last night but couldn't keep her all weekend because SD was afraid that her own mother wouldn't be on time to get her to her SAT. Which I completely understand and agree with. BM is late going everywhere and never has a good reason for it.
Wow,
Interesting how a Skid can rain on what is usually a fairly steady state of marital bliss.
My perspective is that it is not about me, it is about him.
He stinks so I tell him to shower. When he is in the shower for less than 5 minutes I send him back to do it again, and again and again until I am confident he did it right.
So guess what? Of course BM miraculously finds a phone to call DH on Friday when it's pick up time...
Guess what else.. DH said BM called sounding like she was about to jump off a bridge, all pitiful like.. "Do you think you're going to come get SS this weekend?"
DH said "NO" I'm leaving for Vegas, let me speak to SS,as soon as he said that, she HUNG UP!
Funny, for almost 3 years DH has had hardly any contact since SD claims through text messages that his number is blocked and she can't talk to him...BM never answers any calls from DH...DH gave up...
OK, ladies and gents, get a load of this one..
My daughter has SATs tomorrow morning; she's in her room chilling and, of course, texting her friends. Minding her own business..
Well, H's daughter (29) was supposed to come pick up her computer that "daddy" fixed around 7:00. History has dictated that when this "girl" says 7:00, she usually shows up hours later, wasted and carrying on...
SO, I set a boundary. I told H, if she is NOT coming by 7:00, you will call her and tell her that she will pick up the computer TOMORROW...
My husband and I haven't even been married for a year now, and I hate the ex so much! How to move on from that! I believe that she wants him back! What am I to do?
Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad! 47 years is a notable milestone. Thanks for the example, love and support. Of course the 45yrs that I have been around have been pure perfection........... Right????? Love (Your Son)
My SD has always called me by my nickname - the name everyone else calls me. I never expected anything else. Certainly not Mom - she has one of those! And not Miss xxx when I was dating her dad!
First, the good news...the skids coem home tomorrow and we get to keep them for two weeks-yay!!! NO BM bullsh!t for two whole weeks!!!! We will be gone the first week so that's an easy one with no phones and the kids have all lost their phones or broken them, so if she wants to alk to them, she ha to call one of us-tee hee.
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