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Picked kids up last friday and yet again they didn't take a bath for 2 weeks.
Took the kids to the dr to get documentation on the kids. He said he will be calling the proper people.
In the mean time, she wouldn't meet us on last sunday because of the weather, so we have had them this week and this weekend too.They go home on sunday.
I was out of town and not able to give him a card or have a conversation. Actually, I didn't want to speak with him because I was plain sick of him, so being out of town for work was a blessing.
He wrote back. "The list you provided is accurate in describing my adult kids. And I'm disappointed in them to be sure but nothing - I repeat - nothing can stop me from loving them. I will no longer enable them; I can promise you that. But I will never stop loving them."
so i went to see ill niño last night
totally awesome band, got up front and after an hour and a half of heavy metal blasting through my ears moshing around and watching chrsitan machado (singer) sing all the wonderful songs that i love with his beautiful dreadlocks flying around and the very very hot guitarist play right in front of me (soooo HOT!!) I feel very much distressed.
Yep I am actually going out for a friend's birthday this Sat.My BF is getting mournful I won't be at his house with SS again as per every wknd.This wknd I can't be bullied into taking SS swimming and made to feel bad.I do sometimes to be nice (it was my suggestion) and he takes advantage.I said occasionally.I won't have to make any roast dinner.I can do as I please.Sorry if that sounds mean.I have a FT job.I feel like I have another PT job while I am there.I can have some fun and feel younger like BM does every weekend.Thanks
Well my SD has decided not to come over for pretty much the last month due to us grounding her for bad grades. You see, her mother is wonderful and let's her do whatever she wants. So therefore she doesn't get punished and can still be a cheerleader and still do all of her fun stuff she gets to do. My husband calls her and goes over to see her every now and again, but she hasn't come home with him yet. She told me a couple weeks back that she wasn't coming here until she gets to do what she wants. I mean her mother lets her do whatever she wants, so why can't we let her do whatever?
I had my fiancee's sister on my blog list on MySpace for awhile...well...I got pissy and ranted about FSS being a butt one night and she got pissy in return and cried to fiancee about my blog...of course he backed me up...:) but than I blocked her from them because she seemed to take them personally because you know Golden child wouldn't do such awful things! :O *sarcasm mode off So she messages me and asks me why I blocked her and I unloaded and told her that her family is contributing to the fact that FSS won't respect fiancee and it's pissing me off.
So I am telling my sons that they will be with their dad for Valentines Day but tease and add, but I am sure you will miss me , your #1 girl.
My 14 yo BS does not miss a beat and replies " yeah , we will probably just head down to Hooters" ;-0
Good thing they both laughed!
This is my same son who when a huge semi with a trailor pulled out dangerously close to me this week, I said look at that mother(thinking motherload due to size, I swear) My son asks what were you going to say mom, mother trucker?
What happened to my baby boys? LOL
So for those of you unaware, the BM in my situation is bipolar and to the best of my knowledge has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). This causes her to be very unpredictable and prone to live in constant chaos. So when everything seems to be in order in her life, BM will purposely "stir things up" to cause turmoil. BM literally is not comfortable unless she is knee deep in drama... fabricated or not.
I'm so glad I found this site and I appreciate all the good advice everyone has given me through the months!
OK, well in ref. to my previous post for advice about SD.... DH did take her to the psychiatrist and he referred her to the hospital. As luck would have it, her therapist works there part time in the intake dept. She saw SD and DH and after spending hours with them, said that she didnt feel SD was a threat to anyone at the time she was there, so they wouldn't keep her. She told SD to stop playing games and to get her head out of BMs butt. I love it.....finally someone other than me tells her that!!!!