When she informed me, all I said was "Go file."

Between CPEs to renew my professional cert I have been binge watching reels and clips.  One I saw today is a man whose DW is handing him divorce papers which include a CS agreement for a kid that is not his. They met when the kid was 7. No adoption.

We live in Western NC and as many have seen on the news, it is utter devastation. We are alive and well as are our loved ones and no major damage other than a roof leak and a little flooding in the basement. We are the lucky ones and the few. So many have lost everything including their lives. No one could have ever expected this...not like this. 
 

Have y'all ever been in a position where you had to choose between one man (or woman) and another man (or woman)?

What helped you make the choice? And had the choice ever been hard to make?

How do you determine between divulging too much information (leaving you with zero choices) vs not divulging enough (and the prospective partners thinking you're not transparent/lying/playing games/etc)?

Little Idiot marked herself safe from Milton. Even though she wasn't anywhere near the tornadoes or hurricane damage. Maybe they got some localized street flooding. 

Knowing her she probably was all upset she didn't get a ton of people messaging her saying "OMG ARE YOU OK?!?!?!" so she had to go fishing for it on social media. (Not many relatives commented.. a few did)

DH didn't even reach out. At first I was a little shocked but then I thought well he watched the news closely though and he obviously must have determined there was nothing going on in her area.